Should I keep trying to motivate my girlfriend to get a better job, or should I leave it? She is a graduate with an MBA but has spent the last year working part-time in a library, which she doesn’t like and which means she is always broke. She tells me she is applying for jobs but I know she has only done 1 full job application in the last 2 months so she isn’t doing it very urgently. I want her to get a better job because I cant see a relationship with her if she doesn’t want to earn some cash to help pay bills, but when I try to motivate her it always ends in an argument. How can I make motivate her to apply? I know she wants a better job but she doesn’t seem to be willing to put enough effort in to get one. Thanks.