How to face the difficulties?

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  1. apexis

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    We may come across things we are able to solve or unable, we may encounter many accidents in our all life, how to face the difficult moments? Please show your opinions! Thanks!
     
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    We have to keep the cool of mind to face and solve any problems of our lives. Like a few days back I was in a real financial crunch owing to heavy expenses coming from the doors of Christmas and the salary to come in a week, I was in a fix. Lastly I rugged my brains and availed a payday loan and am doing good now. In short its all in the perception. I took the problem easily and the prob turned easy. Think logically and problems would disappear.
     
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    Ya that is a good way to handle it.. I found the best way to handle it any type of difficult is just to go through it and know at the end of the day you will still be fine and that there will be better days. I have been doing this for a while and so far it seems to be working pretty well.
     
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    When I feel overwhelmed by a problem, I write down a list of everything I need to do to solve it. Then I put all the items on the list in order of priority and start working through the list from top to bottom. That way I always feel that I am working on what I should be working on, which greatly helps my focus. Also when you break a problem down to it's smaller parts it doesn't seem so overwhelming any more.
     
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    In trusting topic... It's all about the situation, problems n all... But most important things to keep your mine cool. Try to think n solve accordingly that... It's not a easy but you need a help of someone.. Solve the problem priority based..... Get more focus on it. Try to solve what ever things will be happened....
     
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    There are many accident in our life try to face every problem positively. don't be upset.
    try to make everyone happy.
     
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    Difficulties are the part of our life,without them life is tasteless :)

    When some problems comes in your life think about the root cause of that,if someone is there who is very close to you discuss your problem with him or her,take the advice and help if required.
     
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    Just trust in your self and don't be afraid with wrong. Always try to learn with mistakes and be happy......
     
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    I believe Difficulties should be faced. Running way from difficulties / problem will only increase it. So face it. Calm down and think in a positive way. If you don't want to solve the difficulty today, you have to solve it someday. Facing the difficulty is doing the 50% work done. So, face and solve the difficulties as soon as you can.
     
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    I try to deal with problems by understanding that attached to every difficulty and failure is a seed of an equivalent success. So if something feels like its going wrong, that's only because something better is about to take it's place; and honestly, this has been absolutely true in every part of my life. When I got fired from my job, I ended up getting one that was exactly what I was looking for at the time and ended up becoming a supervisor in that field, which was a first for me. I moved to a completely different state, not knowing what I was going to do with my life or what would happen to me, only to have everything i've ever wanted start pouring into my life, and I mean everything I ever wanted (not all at once of course, but over time things started happening that gave me exactly what I had been praying for).
     
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    When I'm having a hard time, I always ask for His guidance. And He never fails to listen and help me. Sometimes answer to problems might not come very quickly but with my faith, I still can face the day knowing and believing that hard times will end and better things will come soon.
     
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    If we actually see at a difficulty, it will no longer be remain as difficulty. You will find it as small stone in your way and you just have to cross that stone or change your direction. Fearing from difficulties will not give you any solution, you have see what the difficulty is and then you can find solution for it. Life is a journey so there are no difficulties, they are just small hurdles in your way.
     
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    I always try to divide my problem on a few parts, which I can deal with separately. Then I feel more like I can handle it and have boost in motivation after dealing with each step.
     
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    You can get hundreds of answers on it, however will share what i believe
    a) Optimism and zeal that good times are sitting on the anvil. After a bad phase gets through - comes a good phase in life
    b) Faith in the Divine Power that who so ever is with you or not - God almighty is with you always
     
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    Difficult situations come in the part of those people for whom god knows that they can face it.Just have faith on god in every moment of life either good or bad.Always there is the tenure of good and bad periods in your life,let the bad period come and go,it will give you strength to fight in your life and you will become more experienced with the black and white days of your life..
     
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    very positively, with calm
     
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    Just believe in your self ,think positive and trust in your God and move forward one day surely you will win .
     

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