Don't give too much closeness to those who can't hold it....

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  1. bmwillsmith

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    Sometimes you may think to give liniance or closeness to some colleagues or friends. But they may take it as your weakness and disrespect you.

    So it's better to be normal always.

    (Note: this may not be applicable to all cases. Some are exceptional)
     
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    yes i know that .now i am confirmed. i feel that
     
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    There are some things which are too close to share them with someone.
     
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    Yes, dear raptorpower. We need to maintain some privacy not that much but to some extent it is necessary and compulsory at times.
     
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    Yes i agree with you that we should not tell our everything private to friends as they may become our enemies or competitors later. A friend may turn to be an enemy of you if you share your private matters with him/her.
     
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    You're absolutely right.
     
  7. AnushaJain

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    Yes its the human tendency that to one to whom you give ur best,care for them,they only break your heart. So be very neutral and hard for the ones who are not very known to you.
     
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    According to me, it seems that you have also experienced faced same incident like me. I have learned a lot and its always better to stay away from such people.
     
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    Yes, you're right some of the people do this, be careful if you are making some action.
     
  10. bmwillsmith

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    Yes my dear Clarence we should keep some privacy.
     
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    You have explained my concern in your way.
    Thanks for the response dear. Be active in the forum.
     
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    I agree, some people make it your weakness and they think you are fool!
     
  13. Matt-APEXCGI

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    Some time you need some close to whom you can share anything, but that can be only one person.
     
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    But you are not a fool you have given that freedom just by believing them.
     
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    You told right but some thing are different from the other..that is when some one help you in your need then you may trust to give everything to your friend.
     
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    It right that the friends are those who help in need. Always with positive approach.
     
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    I think most of the relation is god gifted and you are thankful for them . but only one relation which is not god gifted and you have the freedom to make this relation . This is called friendship . Friendship is the only relation which make people life happy . Only friend is that persson which help you after your family . So before making friend , you have to sure this person is good to make friend . Friend is the only person by which you can share all your experience , feeling and many more . some said a good friend make your half life full of cheer .
     
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    Always being positive doesn't work, sometime you need be tough positive and serious with fake/wrong people those who can ruin your life with their negative thoughts. Be serious about your goal and move towards it.
     

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